

You’ve probably heard people talk about wine tasting as if there’s one correct way to describe a wine. As if the job is to match some answer key. Maybe you’ve even felt the pressure yourself. You taste a wine, you notice a few things, and then you second-guess everything because your notes don’t sound like the “official” ones.
This belief—this chase for objectivity—gets in your way. It makes you feel like your own experience is not enough. It pushes you into performing tasting instead of paying attention to what’s actually in the glass.
The truth is simple: wine tasting is not objective. It never has been. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t real, accurate, or skill-based. Your palate can be trained and reliable without pretending there’s only one right answer.
Let’s break this down.
Wine exams and certifications train students to use the same style of notes. Wine books and websites present flavors like they’re facts carved in stone. Experts sometimes talk as if their palate is the standard and everyone else should try to match it.
So you hear a note like “white peach, lime pith, crushed seashell” and think:
If I don’t taste that, I must be wrong.
This is where people get stuck. You think the skill is guessing the correct answer. It’s not.
The real skill is noticing what you actually perceive—clearly and consistently.
Your tasting experience is not happening in a vacuum. It is shaped by:
Your palate is not “wrong.” It is responding to the world it has lived in.
If you have never eaten boysenberries, you won’t suddenly taste boysenberries. That’s not a failure. That’s your sensory memory doing its job.
Subjective and sloppy are not the same thing.
Your impressions can be:
even if they are not identical to someone else’s.
The goal is not to match someone’s tasting note.
The goal is to build a stable sense of how you perceive structure, texture, and flavor over time.
That is what skilled tasters do. They don’t taste “better.” They taste with more awareness and memory.
There are components that are more stable across tasters:
These are physical sensations.
They don’t rely on your personal flavor memory.
This is your foundation.
This is your shared language with other tasters.
Flavor words are memories. They come from your life, not from a master list.
There is no correct flavor note.
There is only the one that fits your lived experience.
Use this order every time:
Objectivity is a myth.
It was never the real goal.
The real goal is:
Your palate is already smart. It has been learning from every glass. You do not have to chase someone else’s tasting language to be “correct.” You just need to trust the experience you’re actually having.
Skill grows when you stop trying to sound right and start trying to notice clearly.
Your taste is valid.
Your palate is capable.
Your perspective is the point.